Subconscious mind dating
I’m not a tall guy, and I found even if I was the nicest guy in the world to a woman, it didn’t attract her.
So, I kinda resigned myself to the fact that I’d never be attractive to women.
Don’t be a “getter,” be a “giver.” Don’t try to “get” her replication value from her for your gain. I wanted to make that point because when I first started off, I used to think DHV was about me and showing off. It’s about honest-to-God becoming a better man, which benefits others. Now that I’ve got that out of the way, let’s talk about these switches.
Be someone with a lot of survivor value that’d she want to get for herself. All this means is you’re attractive to other women. Say “how’s your night going” to the bouncer, the bartender, and to the first people you see.
I mean if you listen to women, one of the things they always say they want in a man is height. Height and the “bad boy” thing are just surface symptoms of something deeper that’s going on. It’s the feeling she gets from the height difference, and the feeling she gets with a bad boy. Well, there are other ways to create that feeling inside a woman without having to be tall or without having to be a bad boy or without being rich.
But if you’re going to tell stories, tell them to the group, not to your target. At first, if you do say anything to her, neg her or banter with her. When you’re in comfort with her, obviously continue to incorporate these traits into your stories and behavior. One difference between the attract and comfort phase is let HER talk. Like I said at the beginning of all this, this is about becoming these traits so they naturally come across without you even having to think about it. The good news is that there are effective, new ways that can reprogram our unconscious minds to move them from injecting us with fear to bathing us in love. First, before we can reprogram the unconscious mind, we have to get clear about what our conscious mind wants and needs. Put your hand over your heart and imagine that you can breathe in love with every breath and breathe out love. Continue doing that for about 10 breaths in and out.Now, imagine a time when you felt unconditional love.It continues in comfort, in seduction, and after you have sex with her… In other words, don’t just demonstrate these traits. Being a “survivor.” The reason this “value” is valuable is because it’s a benefit to her.You’re someone who can take care of her and protect her. Trigger these switches and you trigger a primal urge in her to have a masculine man in her life.