Silent dating nyc
We've been together for a year and a half, we're living in a ridiculously tiny living situation in an excellent neighborhood.We are very committed to each other and I feel incredibly lucky to have met him.My friends who have dated elsewhere never had to send first messages but here it's basically required.It feels like we're living the experience that guys have elsewhere where women misrepresent themselves or sit back and expect to be wooed while offering very little to go on.I actually like some of the towns outside NYC in Westchester and Connecticut.I grew up in a pre-war residential neighborhood of another major city, so I don't mind single-family homes but I can't stand 4,000 square-foot new construction with five bathrooms and no grocery store for miles.
And even then there's a chance that he'll just ghost you after 3 months (ask me how I know). They take care of themselves physically and aesthetically. There's blank dating profiles galore, outdated photos, and lazy uninteresting replies to messages.
My wife spent those same years managing her expectations.
(Now that I type that, I seriously hope that I'm the exception to all of that.)All that being said, there are amazing people here of all genders who are definitely looking for a commitment.
I'm 31 & have been living here for 10 years; 6 of which I was single for.
I met my current SO off of Tinder a month and a half before I turned 30.