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That'll just lead someone on and waste that millennial money you could totally be saving for avocado toast or a house one day (but not both, apparently). Most likely, they'll be refreshed by your honesty, and you'll soon be getting refreshments.
Instead, just message your match, and tell them you're looking for a good time. (And a lot more.)Don't forget to stay safe when you meet IRL.
To say I caused some damage that night is a serious understatement.” –Emma, 27, New York City “The college I went to had a weird tradition called a ‘last chance’ list, which was basically a predecessor to Tinder.
Everyone put 10 people on a list of people they’d never hooked up with but wanted to and would match with their crushes.
So definitely use those apps for what you want (in this case, boning), but be careful while you're at it.
And never feel ashamed — or let anyone else shame you — for craving or seeking out sex. Check out the entire Gen Why series and other videos on Facebook and the Bustle app across Apple TV, Roku, and Amazon Fire TV.
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Anyway, I know how to use your dating app to find a date, but it's a whole other strategy when you're using it to find a hookup... I've never had a one-night stand — another groovy thing to tell people. Wanting and pursuing sex is totally normal and should be done without shame, and enjoying pleasure or having multiple sexual partners doesn't make you a sl*t. Let's drop that preconceived notion ASAP and, instead, provide a handy guide on how to use the resources available to you to look for a quick hookup.
On the other hand, I want to have sex with a guy who is covered in tattoos, will ask to borrow rent money, and who will never call me again.
(Listen, the heart wants what it wants.)So if you're just looking for plain, old-fashioned boning, swipe with your member, not your mind. If you're just looking for a hookup, then you can probably skip the fancy dinner and pleasantries.
Nat Tencic talks all things sex, love and relationships, and hangs out with a team of experts who delve into their love lives and answer all your sexy questions.
Nat Tencic is your resident rainbow sexplorer and host of The Hook Up on triple j.