Most common dating mistakes women make

“It comes as such a shock [to women] that they just don’t believe it,” Fisher says about the reaction many women have when their partner says they aren’t in the mood for sex.

“They know themselves that they are not always interested in sex but they still love the man.

But when they discover he doesn’t want to have sex, they think, ‘he doesn’t love me.’ Not true.

He just doesn’t want to have sex.” Talking very directly about sex, what we like and don’t like can make us feel uncomfortable, even with a partner we’ve been with for a long time and otherwise feel close to, says Parrott.

Rather than worry about the shape of your waist and hips, worry about your energy level and enthusiasm and interest in him,” Fisher advises.

Men love tantalizing fluttery neck kisses as much as you do. No one should be faking moans and groans, but why not just let it out if it’s there?“Most guys feel like they are always the initiator and that sets up disequilibrium on the passion scale in the relationship,” he says.Generally, men want to be pursued by their partners just as much as women do.When she's not writing, the UC Davis graduate is focused on pursuits of the entertainment industry, spin class, and hot sauce.Ladies, be honest: when your sex life becomes a little humdrum, out comes the mental catalogue of all the ways your partner isn’t quite measuring up.