Dating married older woman
Not only are there statistically fewer men, but the dynamic of human engagement, and style of personal connection, has changed dramatically since we were dating in our 20’s.Also, a lifetime of love and loss has made many women distrustful and unwilling to get back into the dating game.But you’re in luck — she’s going to be attracted to you before you even open your mouth. It’s going to end eventually, so don’t talk about a relationship with her. Don’t talk about your feelings and emotions and how you’re falling for her unless she does it first. She’s looking to enjoy herself because most of the men in her age range are not in the physical shape she desires and are already broken and destroyed. In order to succeed, she probably had to be smarter than the men around her.She is drawn to you for the same reason so many men chase younger women: she is attracted by your youthful enthusiasm. If you are just a boy toy she turns to for sex, she will get bored with you quickly.You don’t need to tell her you’re older than your years, but you do need to act like a man. Yes, she wants you to tell her how hot she is, but she also wants to talk to you over dinner, during a walk, or lying in bed after you’ve made love.Make no mistake — older women are looking for men, not boys. Nothing is more attractive to her than a young guy who can fill her needs as a man and in the sack. Part of the turn-on of an older woman is her intellect and accomplishments.
She enjoys the fact that you’re not tainted and broken like many of the men her age. Older women have an extremely sensitive bullshit detector, so be 100% honest all of the time. If you want to have sex with her but don’t want to be her boyfriend, tell her. Believe me when I say your older woman is well aware of the age difference between you. If she brings it up, tell her your heart doesn’t care how old she is.She will have her own life, and will want you to have yours too - setting the perfect scene for a casual relationship.An affair with a married woman looking for something outside of her marriage can be extremely enlivening.Ignore it and move forward as if she’s giving you the green light. If she really wants you to stop pursuing her, she will not be shy about it.No matter how hot, smart, or successful she is, an older woman will always be afraid you’re going to leave her for a younger one.