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The parents get a say in the matter, if not out-right organize the whole relationship.
On top of this, the parents are also heavily influenced by their neighbors and siblings and grandparents and the security guard and the vegetable lady they buy xincai from, right on up to Xi Jinping himself.
Whether you consider this unfair or not, Chinese parents do not want their daughter or son to become a leftover woman or man, and they’ll take great pains to avoid it, even if it means deliberately sabotaging a relationship.
That being said, if you are able to provide that stability, even if you are a foreigner, you will have a much easier time with the potential in-laws.
2) Family pressures If you’ve just stepped off the plane, it’s forgivable that you don’t know the cultural differences just yet.
One of the biggest differences you’ll encounter is that parental pressure and lofty expectations play a much larger role in Chinese dating than they do in many Western countries.
Source: Keep in mind that these are all generalities, only based on my personal experiences.
As such, perhaps not everything I say in the following paragraphs will adhere to every person, Chinese or foreign.
If you’re the—for lack of a better word— “dominant” cultural influence on your children’s lives, be mindful of the impact that has on the other side of the family.
If you want a casual sexual relationship, that’s fine.
If you want to get married as soon as possible, that’s fine too.
Got that "Green Card" for being married and in China for 5 years yet? Apr 15, 2015 Unfortunately most of the article and the comments do not reflect anything close to my experience in China. I was in Beijing for 1 and a half years and moved to Yiwu.
You know the one that allows you to work past 60, to come and go without visas or registering with the PSB, to live a a life without looking over your shoulder or wondering if your contract will be renewed next year. Also in 5 years I was in 36 of the cities all over China from Guangzhou to Xing jian to Shanghai to Xian and Changchun.