Dating a man who lives with his parents
Want to chat about relationships, Stephen King or your favorite true crime podcast/documentary/book? He’s attractive, and he has that carefree demeanor that you thought was only possible in romantic comedies.That being said, I’m 29 and one of my dealbreakers has to be a guy who still lives with his parents — especially if he’s never lived anywhere his childhood bedroom.I moved out when I was 19, and other than a brief stay with my mom right after I graduated, I haven’t looked back.Lots of people do it because they want to save a little money before being on their own.
I consider meeting the mom a big deal, but if he lives at home, he probably brings every girl he dates to meet her pretty quickly. If he’s never had roommates, he might be a nightmare to live with.Sincerely, Living Alone and Loving It " Dear Living Alone and Loving It, It MIGHT not be as bad as you think!You need to look at some things you decide whether his living at home is OK with you.Admittedly, my first thought upon hearing a 30-year-old lives with his parents is that he can’t afford to live anywhere else. Most people start thinking about getting their own place by their early 20s, give or take a couple years. It could be for any number of reasons, most of which come back to the fact that he doesn’t want to be an adult. Most parents expect their kids to move out on their own at some point, but if his parents have never mentioned it, don’t ask him to pay rent, and genuinely seem like they want him to stay, why would he ever leave?I don’t want to worry his parents might hear us having sex.