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Just don’t place unfair expectations on the guys you date – they don’t have a Hollywood imagination (let alone budget) working on your third date. And if you are dating someone, you’re just dating, you are not engaged or married. The Situation: Guys and girls are attracted to one another.
The Solution: There are rom-coms and there’s real life, so just try to stay rooted in reality: when a man wants to ask a woman out on a date, he will. We live in a world that treats sex (and other sexual acts) like no big deal, where “as long as you’re in love, it’s okay,” and where you don’t have to go looking for porn, because porn comes looking for you. He Says: We tend, especially as men, to think chastity is just saying no, but it’s so much more than that. It is saying I will respect myself, my family, my girlfriend, my future wife, and my future children.
We’ve all been told to guard our hearts – so does that mean we can’t even interact with the opposite sex? If you make it to the elusive dating phase, be aware of your emotions and planning for the future.
Making her laugh and being there for her when she cries is good, but don’t think for a second you’re the only one for that job.
Asking a girl out and going on a date should be fun and exciting. You’re not co-signing on a mortgage, you’re just getting dinner.
Want to know a secret that will make all dates and future relationships better? She Says: How can you know if someone is marriage material without spending any time with him?
Neither of those situations are good for our sanity.
The Situation: The point of dating is to find a spouse, right? He Says: It doesn’t take a cover letter and résumé to ask a girl out. Dating is an awesome, terrible, challenging, great, heartbreaking institution. It can leave you floating on air or crashing back to earth.The Situation: Things seem to be going pretty well – and then all of a sudden it ends with one line: “It’s not you, it’s God.” Sometimes, well-intentioned Catholics will use God to get out of a relationship they don’t want to be in anymore. Those are both decisions that we made for ourselves, but they sound way better if God told us to do it. Team Leininger will be weighing in on this one together, because, well, we’re Catholic and we like dating each other. It can be all of those things in the same week, even. And because we’re here to help you, we want to briefly address five of the most challenging aspects of the Catholic dating world.